Rikku’s Fantasy~

How you know when the guy likes you. He likes you when…

1. He wants to see you everyday.

2. He cares if you had had your regular meals.

3. He constantly concerning about you for example, asking how you are everyday.

4. He reports to you whatever he is doing. This shows how much he thought of you.

5. He’s willing to sacrifice for you. For example, willing to use his spent his time with you or pays for you.

6. He makes efforts to know your friends and tries to give them a good impression.

7. He trying his best to be your friend and not jump into thinking of having to start any base with you.

8. He tries to get you attention by being a little more than himself.

9. He’s there for you when you really need him.

10. He suddenly likes the things you like.

11. He tries to make you laugh.

12. He tries to behave himself in front of you.

13. He knows your taste. He orders for you before you can decide.

14. He wants to know more about you.

15. He knows you needs.

16. He knows what you like and dislikes.

17. He knows you priorities.

You’ll know when to avoid and forget him when he…

1. touches too much in the first date.

2. come on to you to quickly.

3. asks for sex or anything sexual.

4. watches porn too much.

5. thinks too much porn.

6. don’t have any manners.

7. smokes in front of you knowing that you do mind.

8. uses foul language too often when he speaks.

9. don’t really listen to what you are saying, he could be imagining how u look naked.

10. has too many “kai-muis”.

11. barely know you and tells you he loves you.

12. seems desperate.

13. is not willing to pay on the first date.

14. is too selfish.

15. is too stingy.

16. doesn’t bother when you tell him you are sick.

17. had a girlfriend and never tells you.

18. had contact with his girlfriend and never tells you.

Do not judge a book by it’s cover
so as do not judge a man by his looks
SOmetimes surface doesn’t reflects what actually happen behind
you look at urself on the reflection from a lake
doesn’t meant that you are inside it
it could be there’s nothing inside the lake at all
One might thought oh how pretty that looked
but it might just be few little pretty things put together
does it hold any meaning behind it?
it might have just be there at random or just coincidence
or like sometimes we look at an art piece
we wondered…what the artist trying to express?
what was the artist thinking or feeling when he is painting it?
or even…what does the picture resembles?
How nice of there is an explanation
How nice to figure something out
like saying "Oh i see now! it’s a couple kissing in the sea"
sometimes people kept on wondering
but it doesn’t make anything to come into form
like it’s just sad holding hope
to something which doesn’t exist at all
as like trying to find an answer
where there is actually no answers
like tat picture actually ment nothing
just random drawing
one might think she’s in love
but love might not be present
the feeling might b just something risen out of wonder
or might just be alternate feeling of love
but the feeling might not be love
others might even say look! she’s in love
but she never was and it might just be
a camouflage of somethng she hoped to have…

Everyone has a taste of their own, a taste for food, clothings and uniquely also for people. Some people preferred non spicy food than spicy food, some has sweet tooth they call it, which refers to love for sweet stuff like ice creams or chocolates. Some preferred plain n simpler looks and some punk-ish or maybe some the “in” look. As preference for people, some prefer to go out with a certain type of people, for example, the popular, the dressed-ups, the rich, the with-cars or the “intellectuals” (nerds).

I do understand that everyone has a different inclination for different things. What I don’t understand is taste in love, or love with taste, however u want to call it. Have you ever heard anyone saying “Hey look, she’s his type” or “He’s her type” I call these “love branding”.

I had friends with the whole stretch of his dating/relationship history chooses the same type of girl/guy. As I was saying, some like it tall, some like it fair, some like it flat, some like it big, some like it fat and some like it thin. Some like to date models, some like to date athletes, some like it rich, some like it smart, some like it talented and some like it creative and some, sensitive. Why is all these? If one is to choose the type in personality I understand as it may benefit their relationship having both person’s personality have to reconcile but looks (this include material)? What is love then? Isn’t it that love come natural from mutual feelings rather being manipulated into the person? How can one look at a person and decide whether he/she is potential partner? To say it all, how can one brand love? Is love still love after being “branded”? I do not think it’s appropriate to love brand. One might argue what about age or similar things. I would think age falls under “depend on circumstance” or timing. Age actually doesn’t matter if can manage or good timing. For example both are working rather than the girl working n the guy still in college n so forth. In the end it still comes to the timing and compatibility n reconciliation between the partners. It will be very unfair to the one being branded “not my type” on the ground of looks itself or unfair to one or both after being branded “my type” but fail to satisfy to have a good relationship.